5 Ways U Can help Someone Who's Depressed

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Tips to help a friend or family member cope with or escape from the blues.

When someone you know and love is clinically depressed, you want to be there for that person. Still, keep in mind that your friend or loved one has a medical condition, so giving support may mean more than just offering a shoulder to cry on.

“There are many things you can do to make them feel better,” says Jackie Gollan, PhD, assistant professor in the department of psychiatry and behavioral sciences at Northwestern University Feinberg School of Medicine in Chicago, but medical care may be what they really need to recover.

Here are 4 helpful things you can do for someone with depression.

  • Realize treatment is Key

Depression is a medical condition requiring medical care. As a family member or friend, you can listen to the person and give your support, but that might not be enough.

If you keep this in mind, it can prevent you from losing patience or getting frustrated with them because your best efforts don't "cure" their depression.

"People that are depressed can't sleep it off; they can't avoid it," says Gollan. "You can give care and support, but it's not going to solve the problem."

  • Get active in their Care

The best thing you can do for someone with depression is support his or her treatment. Tell your friend or loved one that depression is a medical problem and ignoring it will not make it go away.

"If someone breaks their leg, they are taken to a doctor or hospital," says Gollan. "If someone has depression, they need medical care and psychosocial support."

  • Stay in Contact

Call or visit the person and invite her or him to join you in daily activities. People who are depressed may become isolated because they don't want to "bother" other people.

You may need to work extra hard to support and engage someone who's depressed.

"Activities that promote a sense of accomplishment, reward, or pleasure are directly helpful in improving depression," says Gollan. "Choose something that the person finds interesting."Still, keep in mind that they may not feel interested in the activity right away.

Routines that promote exercise, nutrition, and a healthy amount of sleep are helpful.

  • Find local Services

Use support services in your community or online resources such as National Alliance on Mental Illness to help you find the right specialists to consult on depression treatment. A primary-care physician or an ob/gyn can also provide referrals for a psychiatrist.

Some people with depression may not recognize that they're depressed. Explain to them that the condition can get progressively worse, even become chronic, if not treated early. Hence, it's worth investigating supportive services and specialists.

  • Pay Attention

If someone you love has been depressed in the past, pay attention if the person is experiencing some of the riskier life phases (in terms of depression), such as adolescence or a recent childbirth.

Also, if the going is rough for him or her emotionally due to marital separation, divorce, job loss, a death in the family, or other serious stress, be ready to step in to help.

Forget About Winter

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Vietnam

Sprinkled along the coastline are a dozen beaches that range from white to red sands. Ha Long Bay, which means “Bay of Descending Dragons,” has thousands of limestone monoliths and islands. Its shallow waters are a great place to snorkel and look for 200 species of fish. Several of the islands contain caves, and some of the islands support floating fishing villages.


Sydney

Snow, ice and travel bottlenecks got you down? It’s summer in Sydney, and January is the warmest month of the year. Care to take a swim? You’ll have 40 beaches to choose from in the greater metropolitan area, including Bondi and Manly beaches. Be sure to check out the iconic landmarks such as the Sydney Opera House and the Sydney Harbour Bridge.

Morocco

Tired of snowflakes? Morocco beckons with palm trees, sand dunes and exotic delicacies such as pigeon pie, lamb tagine and mint tea. The Hassan II Mosque in Casablanca, the largest mosque in Morocco, dazzles with its soaring 689-foot minaret and a picture-perfect location. Half the surface of the mosque perches over the Atlantic Ocean, so the roar of the sea mixes with the Islamic call to prayer. Leave your shoes by the door and pad barefoot over the heated marble floors.

La Paz, Mexico

This arid city on Baja California Sur has year-round average temperatures that hover between 75 and 77 degrees Fahrenheit. La Paz averages more than 300 days of sunshine annually. Visitors who love the water will find plenty of activities, including diving, sport fishing, snorkeling and kayaking. Eco-tourists can also take whale-watching tours out of La Paz.

Hollywood, Calif.

Whether you call it Tinsel town, Starstruck Town or Jolly wood, this Angeles neighborhood was famous as the center of the U.S. film industry by 1920. Visitors today can spot many gleaming landmarks, including the Capitol Records Building, Grumman’s Chinese Theatre, The Hollywood Bowl, the Hollywood Walk of Fame, Paramount Pictures and the Sunset Strip.

2011 Cars Can't Wait to Drive

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2012 Audi A7 Sport back

The all new Audi A7 Sportback combines the upscale appeal of the A8 sedan with the style of the A5 Sport back, which is only available in Europe. Inside and out, it features design details that reward the driver and his or her passengers. While built on the same chassis architecture as the A4, S4,A5 and S5, the A7 actually has a longer wheelbase (114.7 inches) and wider track (64.5 inches front, 64.1 inches rear). There will be only one engine available in the U.S. (unless you count the S7): Audi's gasoline-fueled, supercharged and direct-injected 3.0-liter V6. It will be rated at 295 horsepower and 325 lb-ft of torque.

2011 Audi RS5

Starting next year, American buyers will finally be able to get their hands on a very lustworthy piece of Audi hardware: the RS5. European buyers have been able to snap up this 444-horsepower V8 coupe for some time now. Once the car does hit our shores, don't expect it to be either plentiful or cheap. The company has already made it clear that it will import only a limited number of RS5s, and that each of them will be loaded to the gills with go-fast and luxury options.

2011 Audi A8


It's been a long time — seven years, to be exact — since Audi re-examined its range-topping A8. But this fall, the German automaker is treating its flagship to a complete makeover. The all-new Audi A8 will retain its legendary strengths — an elegant interior and standard all-wheel drive — but will get a little bigger, add a host of new electronic gadgets and sport a clean, strikingly muscular exterior.


2011 Aston Martin Cygnet

Based on the lowly Toyota iQ micro, the 2011 Aston Martin Cygnet is what would happen if you turned the company's engineers loose on your daily driver. The interior has been swaddled in hand-crafted amenities and the car now boasts very Aston front and rear fascias. Unfortunately the performance remains the same. Expect a tiny 1.3-liter engine with around 100 horsepower to be at the heart of the car.

2011 Aston Martin V12 Vantage

Aston Martin has been kind enough to give American buyers something to look forward to next year — it has decided to sell the V12 Vantage in the United States. Using a 6.0-liter V12 engine with 510 horsepower and 420 lb-ft of torque, the car will be available as a Carbon Black edition exclusively in the US. Expect all the joy of the V8 Vantage with the punch of four extra cylinders.

2011 Acura TSX Sport Wagon

Manufacturers are hoping that wagons will soon gain traction in America as a stylish alternative to SUVs and minivans, and Acura is looking to capitalize on the trend with its TSX Sport Wagon. The company brought over the European-market Honda Accord Wagon, bolted on an Acura fascia and called it a day — but that's a good thing. Power is likely to come from the company's 2.4-liter 204-horsepower 4-cylinder engine.

WHAT'S BEEN REFRESHED . . .

2011 Acura TSX

Earlier in the year, Acura made quite a bit of noise about the possibility of a hybrid TSX. The company hasn't mentioned any details since those first reports surfaced in January 2010, but at the time Acura seemed confident that the fuel-saver version would be on the street by 2011. Given Honda's experience with integrated motor assist, a hybrid TSX shouldn't be too much of a stretch.

Indoor Water Parks: Water Parks of America

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Indoor Water Park: Great Wolf Lodge

America's largest family of indoor water park hotels, Great Wolf has 12 lodges to its name. Great Wolf Lodge Grand Mound, north of Centralia, Wash., draws much of its attendance from nearby Seattle. Those looking for thrills either head to the Howlin' Tornado, a raft ride that swirls riders up its funneled 30-foot sides, or the River Canyon Run, where a round raft drops six stories through a chute, sailing over 500 feet of water in all.

Indoor Water Park: Massanutten Resort

Massanutten Resort in Massanutten, Va., offers more than just warm water temperatures and eight big attractions. The 42,000-square-foot glass-walled, pyramid-shaped structure also has views of the beautiful Shenandoah Valley. As for rides, the Melting Mogul body slide sends folks on a heart-stopping descent into total darkness, and the Peak Splash slide is more than 440 feet high and moves 2,000 gallons of water per minute.

Indoor Water Park: Avalanche Bay Indoor Water Park

In Michigan's northwestern region, Boyne is best known as a ski escape. But the area is also home to the 88,000-square-footAvalanche Bay, where skiers often thaw out in the 84-degree temperatures. The park is home to Michigan's only surf simulator, the Rip Zone, where guests can try either stand-up surfing or boogie boarding.

Indoor Water Park: Wilderness Territory Water Park Resort

No matter how cold it gets outside, you'll always find temperatures in the 80s in these indoor water parks, where you can do everything from surfing 35-mph waves to riding a lazy river.

Four distinct parks make up Wilderness Territory Water Park Resort in Wisconsin Dells. The first water park in the U.S. opened in 1989, and 13 years later Pennsylvania finally caught onto the trend with Splash Lagoon in Erie, Pa. It may have taken a while, but as this park proves — some things are worth waiting for. The park attracts about 400,000 annual visitors and will open a new 30,000-square-foot wave pool this summer.

Five Ways to Beat the Most Depressing Days of the Year

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For anyone dealing with a simple bout of winter funk, the best coping mechanisms are simple steps like eating right, exercising, and not focusing too much on the weather outside:

1: : Don't let your mood Dictate your Plans.

If you're in a funk, it's important to keep up your social contacts, says Dr. Malone. People generally make plans with friends when they're feeling good, and then cancel those plans when they feel down—which, will just make you feel worse. "Of course, you want to keep a balance, and you don't want to go out every night. But if you find yourself getting depressed and withdrawing from your friends, pay attention to that," he says. "Sitting in a dark house watching TV isn't good for anybody." Push yourself to keep your social obligations even if you'd rather hibernate. Tell a friend that you need someone to help you through this time of year. Have that person check in more often, if need be, to keep your spirits up.

2: Watch your Diet.

It's harder to eat healthy in the winter and people eat more carbs, which just weigh them down." Carbohydrate cravings can be a symptom of the more severe seasonal affective disorder, but when you look at most of what we define as "comfort foods"—macaroni and cheese, grilled cheese, lasagna, chicken and dumplings—they're pretty carb-heavy. Carbs prey upon our brain's pleasure sensors, says Dr. Malone, which makes them enticing. But, at the same time, they can slow you down and make you feel lethargic. Work more organic fruits and vegetables into your diet, cooking up winter greens or using frozen fruits to make a post-workout smoothie. And find restaurants with healthy menus.

3: Work Out.

Not surprisingly, exercise is a great antidote to the winter blues, says Dr. Malone, but getting motivated to lace up those running shoes can be hard when it's cold out. "Even a short brisk walk outside helps—or grab some cross-country skis," says LaFrance. "Even going to a gym is better than nothing at all." If even that is a challenge, recruit a friend to join you, or to remind you why it's important. Research has found that improving your overall outlook on life can be a better motivation to exercise than the goal of losing weight. So forget that resolution you made, and hit the gym because you know it will lift your spirits.

4: Get more Light into your Life.

Light therapy is often used to treat full-blown seasonal affective disorder, and it's just as effective at getting rid of mild seasonal depression, says LaFrance. Turn on a few more lamps in your office, raise the blinds if you have a window, and try to get outside during the middle of the day when the sun is out, particularly if it's dark both when you get to work and when you leave. Failing that, take a 1,000-IU vitamin D supplement. In addition to giving you the health benefits you're missing from lack of sunlight, there's some evidence that depression is linked to vitamin D deficiencies.

5: Don't make Life-Changing Decisions.

While you think your winter doldrums may be due to your job, where you live, or a relationship issue, it's not a great idea to change any one of those things until you've had some time to think it over, says LaFrance. "If you're in a funk, it's not the best time to be making abrupt changes without weighing your options," she says. "Your problem solving may not be as clear as it normally is," she adds. Wait a month and see if you still feel the same way before making any major life changes.

Money-Saving Beauty Tips

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Budget beautistas, gather round! It's understood that even when you're trying to be frugal with your funds, looking good is not to be sacrificed. So we've scoured our makeup bags, bathrooms, and even our kitchens to find you the most innovative beauty tricks so you can keep your money in your pocket.


Cut Your Own Bangs

Some salons charge $5 or less for a bang trim, but you can try to trim them at home if you're feeling daring. "For a blunt line, use straight shears," says Donna Zawislak, stylist and field education leader for Hair Cuttery.






Pay for Polish Changes Only

If you're squeamish about having someone push back your cuticles or cutting your nails too short, try giving yourself an at-home manicure. Skip buying your own bottles of expensive nail lacquers and head to the salon for just a polish change — most charge under $10 to swap your color.













Squeeze More Swipes

Get a few more uses out of an almost-gone mascara by standing it in a glass of warm water or heating it up with a hair dryer.










Use Coffee Grounds on Cellulite

Mix dry grounds with your body lotion and rub into your problem areas. This stimulates circulation, making it easier for trapped fat to surface and be broken down. Plus, the caffeine tightens skin. Leave this coffee-lotion combo on your skin for about 30 minutes, then wash off.



Love Poetry

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Khamosh Mohabbat Krta Hai Koi

Teri Yaad Mein Pal Pal Marta Hai Koi
Har Saans K Saath Tujhe Yaad Karta Hai Koi


Fursat Mile To Tanhai Mein Sochna
Kitni Khamosh Mohabbat Tum Se Karta Hai Koi

Kistarah Khatam Karein

Kis tarha khatam karin un sy dosti ZAHID
Jin sy miltay hain tu zamana bhool jate han

Meri Kisi se Chahat Nahi Tumhare Siwa

Meri Kisi Se Chahat Nahi Tumare Siwa
Mujhe Kisi Ki Zarurat Nahi Tumare Siwa


Jo Mere Dil Aur Meri Zindagi Se Pyar Kare
Kisi Ko Itni Ijazat Nahi Tumare Siwa

Jee Bhar Kay Dekho

Jee Bhar K Dekho Tumhe Agar Gawara Ho
Betaab Meri Nazren Ho Aur Pyar Tumhara Ho


Jaan Ki Fikhar Hai Na Zamane Ki Parwa
Ek Tumhara Pyar Ho Jo Bas Humara Ho

Mohabbat me Toaheed k Qael Hain

Hum Muhabbat Mein B Toheed K Qayel Hen Faraz
Zindagi Bhar 1 He Shakhs Ko Mehboob Banae Rakha.

Jahan per Tum nahi Hotey

Na hi phool khiltey hain na hi mosam badaltey hain,
wahan kuch bhi nhi hota jahan per tum nahi hotey,

yahan wasey to hr soghat aasani se milti hai,
per mera Dil nhi lgta jahan per tm nhi hotey,

yahan to log sadyon ko b lmhon main bdaltey hn,
mera ek pal b nhi katta jahan per tum nhi hotey...!

Paris Las Vegas Hotel

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Hotel Over View


Experience everything you love about Paris, right in the heart of Vegas. It's all the passion, excitement, and ambiance of Europe's most romantic city, in the entertainment capital of the world. No wonder they say everything is sexier in Paris.

Classic style, fine craftsmanship, and authentic details all combine to create Paris Las Vegas' unique ambiance. Our elegant hotel tower has spacious guestrooms and suites. Sumptuous fabrics, custom European furniture, and marble bathrooms make each room a sophisticated private retreat.

For the ultimate in luxury, check into one of our plush new Red Rooms, complete with marble
bathrooms and custom European furniture. These sexy, sensual accommodations combine the distinctive French designs of Cagley & Tanner with the modern conveniences of iHome stereos and HDTVs.

On the 31st floor you'll find your perfect space to relax in plush comfort at our exclusive LeRendezvous Concierge Lounge.


Red Room Luxury

Timeless sensuality meets modern sophistication in our new Red Rooms. Cagley & Tanner's contemporary, fun design gives way to clean, classic bathroom layouts. Located on the highest floors of the hotel tower, the Red Rooms bring Paris to life with chic color palettes and signature sofas shaped like plump, puckered lips. We add thoughtful modern technology like 42" plasma-screen HDTVs and iHome units that combine iPod dock, alarm clock, radio and stereo sound.

Luxury Guest Room


Custom European furniture, rich fabrics and warm decorations give these rooms a distinctive French feel. The speakerphone, voice mail, video-on-demand and in-room safe provide the convenience you deserve. The immaculate, marble bathroom features both a bathtub and a stand-alone shower. Available with one king-size bed or two queens.

Premium Guest Room

Settle in to a luxurious room with a distinctive French feel and a breathtaking view of the famous Las Vegas Strip. Our Premium Room features custom European furniture, rich fabrics and warm colors plus convenient amenities such as speakerphone, voice mail, video-on-demand and an in-room safe. These rooms also feature an immaculate marble bathroom with bathtub and standalone shower. Available with one king or two queen sized beds.

Suite Calais

With 935 square feet, the Suite Calais maximizes more than your living area, it maximizes your convenience. Offering separate, sophisticated dining and seating parlors, as well as a Master Bedroom with individual his and her baths, a stay in the Suite Calais delivers comfort and versatility. All of the modern amenities (fax machine, whirlpool tub, and more) have been tastefully integrated into the charming French décor.

January Holidays

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Special events celebrated during the month of January

Eye Care Month

Hot Tea Month

National Blood Donor Month

National Braille Literacy Month

National Hobby Month

National Soup Month

National Staying Healthy Month

National Thank You Month

Check out my page for this special day!

Oatmeal Month

10 Winter Skin Care Tips

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We may sweat more, shave more, and soak up more sun in warmer months, but with the winter comes a whole new tricky set of beauty issues we must contend with. Slathering on head-to-toe moisturizer may seem like the solution, but preventing dried out, flaky skin involves a little more work. Dr. Ava Shamban, a Santa Monica, California based dermatologist, has provided 10 simple tips to ward off low-temperatures, gusty winds, and dry heat. Follow these basic rules and you’ll stay silky smooth all over till spring.

1. Opt for Oil-based Moisturizers
“Dr. Shamban says the main switch in your winter skin care regimen should be selecting an oil-based moisturizer, so look for one that contains avocado or almond oil. These “will lock the moisture in your skin and build a protective layer on the top surface,” says Dr. Shamban. “Water based moisturizers can be damaging to your skin, especially during cold climate, because the water freezes in your skin.” Apply liberally whenever your skin feels dry.

2. Don’t forget your Sunscreen
Just because it’s cold out doesn’t mean the sun isn’t strong, especially when it can reflect off snow. Dr. Shamban suggests applying an SPF 15-30 to your face (and hands if they’re exposed) about 30 minutes before going outside. Reapply if you’re spending the day outside.

3. Use a Humidifier
Heat can dry out more than just your sinuses. With added moisture in the air, your skin won’t be as flaky.

4. Avoid very Hot water
It may feel good, but Dr. Shamban says you should never shower, bathe or wash your face with extremely hot water. “It can not only break the capillaries in the face, but also break down the lipid barriers in the skin, which will lead to a loss of moisture.” She says adding a few drops of Jojoba or almond oil to a bath can nourish and hydrate dry skin.

5. Hydrate Skin while it's Damp
Applying moisturizer immediately after taking a shower or washing your face will help lock-in moisture.

6. Never ever Lick your Lips
Stash soothing lip balms in your purse, car, and desk to keep lips from chapping. Dr. Shamban says you can also apply few drops of olive oil mixed with few drops of honey to your lips for few minutes to hydrate.

7. Swap your Liquid Foundation for a Cream formula
Liquid foundation can actually freeze! “One of the benefits of using cream is that it will give your skin an extra protective layer and help keep the moisture in your skin,” says Dr. Shamban.

8. Don’t ever Leave the house with Wet Hair
Have you ever had your hair freeze in the cold? This will cause damage to your scalp and hair can actually break off, so it may be better to shower in the evening. Since hair can get dry and damaged just like our skin, protect it by conditioning more in the winter and blow dry hair on a cooler setting.

9. Wear a Hat to prevent a Dry Scalp
Besides keeping you warm, a hat will hold in moisture and protect your scalp from dry air and flaking. Make sure your hat is not too tight and made of breathable material.

10. Give your Hands extra Love
“The skin on our hands are extremely thin, which means they already have a limited amount of moisture,” says Dr. Shamban. Apply moisturizer frequently, especially after washing your hands, and avoid cotton gloves, which absorb moisture and stay wet.